Giving Credit Where Credit is Due..

Well I was Going to Write a Poem about what I'm Feeling but I choose to right write about it.. It's been a lot of bullshit that I've been hearing about and I wanted to address it Right Here Right Now.... 

First I wanted to Talk about Women in General.. We as Women.. Yes.. in this note I will address everyone that I tagged to this Note as A Woman.. because we are Grown and we are Not on that Childish shit anymore... But I wanted to set the Record Straight and say that Not every female is a hoe, or No Good.. Like Not all guys are No Good.. And I don't want to say that Most guys are No Good.. Because I haven't met Most of the guys in the World.. What I have encountered is guys that tend to fall for me while I fall for them and it turns out to be a NO Good Situation.. I've been around the Block so to speak and I've seen and heard somethings but nothing has prepared me for the bullshit that I keep having to deal with.. And do you notice what I said.. having to Deal with.. Because in Reality...I don't have to Deal with Shit or Put up with Shit.. I just do because it's there and I feel like.. Dealing with the Bullshit in the Present will turn to a reward in the future.. 

This is the thought process of a lot of females.. We don't understand that we don't have to sit around and get cheated on or cry every night because we know for a fact that our boyfriends or baby daddies or whoever is fooling around.. But we do.. We don't have to settle for being #2 because we don't feel like finding a real relationship.. because it's hard work.. and time consuming.. we just want what's now.. and thinking about the consequences later... And we do.. We don't take pride in ourselves as women.. because half of the time we don't even respect each other.. to not fuck with each others men.. So how can he respect you when you are out here... Giving yourself up to whatever guy tells you that you can have whatever you like.. 

And Please we as Ladies... can we stop putting each other down.. ie.. we tell each other that you will never be like me.. I got what your man wants.. and instead of trying to tear each other down.. Build each other up.. We as Females need to stick together.. But we fall apart at the sight of a big dick... oh and let's not forget if he stroking and the head is right.. Our Mind is Gone.. and Years and Months later.. we telling ourselves that he loves me.. and him fucking my best friend, my cousin, or my damn sister.. that it is just business and its not pleasure.. And when he sits in your face and tell you that it meant nothing to him.. what do you do?? YOU Take His Ass Back Like a Dumb Bitch.... Where was His Lesson Learned?? Did You Learn Anything about yourself?? Hmmmm...

So now he knows that you are not going anywhere so he does whatever he wants you and sit there and justify his actions because being with him is all you know at the moment.. And You're not trying to go back into the single life and start dating again.. So you let this nigga shit on you.. and Then when you finally get tired of his shit Finally.. You Break up with him.. And now every guy that you encounter.. You deem him as being ain't shit.. without giving him the benefit of the doubt.. That's how you lose out on guys who Might be worth your time.. Because you're letting the past interfere in your future..Oh and Guys are Good for that Too.. They Make it that Much Harder for a Real Women to Make a Change in their lives because they've been Hurt.. But We need to stop that Cycle of doing each other wrong because it's not helping anyone.. And the Cycle of doing each other wrong continues... smh... 

Ladies... I just want you girls to know that you deserve more that the bullshit that you opening your legs for or the little bit of pleasure that you feeling for the moment but the sadness that you have to endure after the fact.. True story.. I used to think that it was Me.. that was the reason why I was attracting all these Guys that wasn't shit.... But it was my Mind Frame... and the way I was thinking.. because we have sex.. and Let's face it.. I love sex.. That's the reason why I'm in a lot of shit now.. but I digress.. I was just having sex.. and then I would wonder why guys would flip out or change.. and this was like every guy that I was meeting.. they began to call less and started to play that role that dumb as guys play.. less calls, less visits, unless it regards to sex.. and I would wonder why.. shit would go sour.. Its because I was letting this shit happen because after all I started this... I can only let him do as much as I want him too.. And that's the problem that we as women...need to control ourselves and stop that shit.. NOW...

Please... Don't think that every Guy is not shit... You wouldn't chop down a tree because some of the apples are rotten.. You keep trying into you find your apple.. That mean you just have to get your hands dirty and climb the trees to find your Mr. Right.. Not Mr. Right Now.. Or Mr. Right for Someone Else.. You find the guy who is perfect for You.. And at first I thought that Real Love didn't Exist... But I tagged people in this Note who have it.. So it's true that Real Love exist.. And true everyone is Not Perfect.. But you have to Find the Person who is Perfect for You.. I'm Sick of people saying that All Niggas are not shit.. And All Guys are Dogs... That shit is Not True.. I just wonder a lot.. And wondering a lot never hurt anybody.. I wonder if all Guys are the Same Mentality.. That's Different..Because we Know physically they aren't the same.. But If You Could get into a Couple of Guys heads.. What would you Find... Makes You want to Change your major.. Huh.. LOL.. 

But We as women set ourselves up for failure because we say that we are looking for something but then when we see that it isn't going the way that we want it.. We want to do a 360 and change and want the commitment when we said we just wanted relations.. I was one of those people.. And you wonder why you don't get the right results and you want to say that you want to be single and fuck love and all that bullshit.. And wonder why you can't find a decent man.. when you gave every other man the opportunity... Like Guys don't Fucking Gossip well they don't call it Gossip then they would be bitches.. But they have "Man Conferences.." And You Not Gone Get Anywhere or Anyone.. If Yo Ass is the First Topic of the "Man Conference.." we need to get it together.. YOU say you want something MORE... YOU Say you want a Relationship... But when you start talking to someone YOU Never start with the initiative to be something more with a Guy.. We are just doing it "see what Happens.. and if a Relationship.. evolves.. well hey..." WTF kinda thinking is that.. Really.. 

I didn't want this to be too long but i just want us as women to stop settling for the door prize and go for the gold.. And we are old enough to know when shit doesn't sound right when we first talk to a guy.. We have to stop trying to search for guys who we think will fill the void.. We just have to sit back and he will come to you.. Ever notice when you search for someone.. You're search always turn up negative.. What do You think is the reason behind that.. (sighs..) 

I had a lot more to say but I'm tired.. So I'm about to Go to Sleep.. I just Hope we as Women get it together... Real Talk...